Why beauty pageants should be banned for under 18’s

Now i don’t have anything against beauty pageants, i don’t think its wrong to have them. But i do find it wrong and creepy to see young kids as young as 5 years old in beauty pageants. Not just the fact that they are being exposed but the fact that some parents would go to extreme lengths i.e botox, yes believe it or not just so that they win. Also what does this teach kids??? that’s its ok to get plastic surgery, that beauty is the only thing important in life??. Honestly i think that some of these children should be removed from their parents because clearly this parents are ripping them off their childhood. Melbourne Hosts Controversial Child Beauty Pageant

Did you know it take up to 7 or 8 hours per day just to get the child ready in terms of costume, make-up and practice their skill/routine. The child is always being pressured by the parent to do 100% or nothing. Honestly i think the parent are the ones pushing their own failed dreams towards the child. Their doing it from themselves regardless on how the child feels. They don’t show you what happens next if the child fails to win do they?? Parents would get angry, upset, frustrated towards their child because she did not fulfill their potentials.  How do you think the child would feel?? upset, unwanted and a failure. Is this fair on the child of course not.

They say its good because it will make the child less shy and more confidence when they grow up. Somehow i think the child will grow up will to much confidence and have an ego. i don’t think a very young beauty pageant has anything  good to show for. I don’t think these kids will grow up right they will grow up thinking that only beauty is the way to get things in life.

Most disturbing thing is some parents would go the extra mile to get plastic surgery on the child???? i mean what the fuck is that all about?? of course its illegal but they somehow find a way to beat the system or they would inject it themselves without supervision or experience.

Already its hard today and kids seems to be growing up much more faster then they should. But this doesn’t make it better it makes it worse.

i just think its wrong for a parent to force their dream on a child and i strongly believe that they should be removed from them due to taking away their natural childhood, this is neglecting the child’s needs to feed your own..

Being a normal child model such as promoting toys and clothing is one thing, but taking it to the next level is another. Just imagine how the child feels everyday to wake up early, practicing,  get ready, get make-up done, getting told what to day, say and behave.

Having a parent then teaches you that beauty is the right way forward and that you will make a lot of money from it if successful is giving the child bad advice to take on as they grow older. Parents treats their children as a product they are trying to sell and not as a human being.

Also this will trigger

  •  hatred and jealousy towards other
  •  low self-esteem if the lose the contests after being worked so hard to win and being told your not good enough basically
  •  Self destructive behavior such as bulimia, anorexia.
  • Compulsive exersize disorder as they grow older
  • Perfectionism
  • Mental disorder

So why would you treat your child like a product????? The reason why i say 18 is because i think that’s the time you can decide whether you want to do it for yourself or not. You have a choice, you have your own mind, you have your own expressiveness. But under 18 i think your more likely to be more influenced but others without knowing what you think is best for yourself.208726-beauty-pageant

Breast enlargement truths and myths

Hey all. Well today i was just thinking about something i don’t think i have written about yet, something new and i hope you guys will like or have some sort of interest lol. Its about breast enlargement. I’m not going to make about rant about whether its a good or bad thing, just going to make a few points about it and express my opinions about the whole thing as well as talk about the artificial and natural ways. breast-implant

How are breast form??

Ok now it’s mainly two things. 1. fats and 2 genetics. As you all know breast and made from fatty tissue stored in your breast. It goes to say that the more you eat the bigger they will become, however we can’t control where the fats goes in our bodies but we can do exercise to keeps the breast looking firm and lose weight anywhere else in the body where needed. BUT having say the more you eat the bigger they become is not always true. If you have a very high  metabolism then it will be hard to store fat anywhere never mind your breasts and i wouldn’t recommend pushing yourself to eat more because you will over work your stomach ( which already works fast). How do i know, well i have a  high metabolism and if i try to push myself to gain weight by eating more i will be  sick and have bad stomach pains because i over worked my stomach.

Genetics. Yes it can also be a pass down from mothers or even grandmothers. If large breast runs in your family then it would be a more likely chance you will have large breast to. Again not all the time, sometimes the genes catch more from one side then the other unless both side of the family have this gene.

Artificial 

Ok well the first and most successful way to make them bigger is of course plastic surgery. But i need to note two things about it which they won’t tell you. First off you would need to change and replace them every 3-5 years. Some can be done every 10 years but think about this your going to have to save at least up to 5K  or more after your surgery for the next time when they need to be taken out and replaced. Now unless you have a lot of money and don’t care then that’s fine, But if you don’t well its might be a problem after 5 years or more. I know the NHS can take them out for free but they won’t replace with a new one. You can’t keep the same implant forever mainly because of the infections you might get once expired. Second thing i hear and even even felt once its that you loss sensation. You don’t have that same feeling when you touch the breast and also it does feel a bit like a basketball (well the woman did go from a B cup to a F loool)

The only thing i’m going to say about this is make sure you always do 10000000000% research on the surgeon before even considering, many cases things has gone wrong and sometimes unfixable. Also i would say if your considering to do it once you have fully developed. Breasts stops growing from your early 20s, there is not point getting them done at 16 when you haven’t fully grown yet. I also want to say if your going to do them then do it for yourself. Please don’t consider this because others have pressured you to do it.

Natural

Now all these creams and enhance pills 80% don’t work like they say they would. why??? well its simple to make the breast and only the breast bigger is hard unless everything else gets bigger ( except for plastic surgery). These products might work with women who already have large proportion but it might take much much longer for others who don’t and even so you might gain maybe a cup size bigger if not half a cup. And lets face it if these products did really work then nobody would be getting breast implants anymore.   The only things i notice does work is birth control pills. They have pro-estrogen which can increase breast size BUT again all your body will get bigger to. Its just something we really can’t help or control or of course getting pregnant will make your breasts bigger .

Myself i think well each to there own really. We can’t say yes its 100% right or no its 100% wrong. I guess we can see it from two points of views. One which is for more confidence. If a woman really feels insecure with herself then i guess she has the right to make herself feel better and most of then time those women only go a cup size or 2 bigger (depending on how small they are) just to proportion themselves or another way i see it is women who work in a adult industry i.e strip clubs or porn may get it for their jobs, again something i can understand why and i’m sure we can to.

The second point we can see it from is because of more attention and or pressure. Now for me doing it for attention is very off putting, its basically saying your cheap and have nothing else good to show about yourself. Sorry it this offends people, and doing it because of pressure again you have to think to yourself that we are all born with a unique features don’t let anybody talk down on you because you might be a A cup. I see some women with small breasts but they have amazing legs which most men would find that more appealing.  Like most girls who thinks the bigger the better, tbh men don’t actually care, as long as its there even small or big a woman is a woman and most of them like different aspect of a woman. Some likes legs, butt, face, feet, eyes, lips and of course the most important personality etc etc.

Anyways like i said be careful and always think before considering something that will change your life forever and also if you do please don’t go overboard to the point where you just look like a stick with 2 footballs on your chest, keep it proportion with the rest 🙂