Using the term ”Fuck it”

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So the other day i was thinking of the term ”Fuck it”and to me it has a powerful meaning rather then just two simple words put together. To me it means freedom, expressing yourself, being happy and just going for it, having the balls, never holding back, taking chances etc etc. I ¬†myself use this term on everyday situations though for me when i say it i mean it and i think about it before i use it. I want to make sure that i’m using in a way that it will have a full blown impact. Here i’m going to list few things that are 100% winning ways to use the term FUCK IT.

 

ACCEPTABLE SITUATIONS ARE:

”Should i call him/her or not??” FUCK IT YES.

At the end of the day what do you have to lose??? So what if they don’t pick up sure you might feel like shit but hey they are 8 billion people out there who would pick up there phone or alternately they might be busy and call back later. So don’t hesitate.

”Should i tell him/her how i feel??” FUCK IT YES

Listen if people could read minds it will make life a helluva lot easier, but we can’t. So rather then keep it to yourself just say it. I mean for a start you will feel better for getting it out of your chest and two even if the person doesn’t give you the same respond at least you now know and you can decide from there what to do.

” Should i eat a doughnut or will it ¬†go straight to my hips??” FUCK IT I’M HUNGRY!!

You hungry, you eat end of story. People don’t like you for that well fuck them to ūüôā

” Should i get it in blue or in red??” FUCK IT GET BOTH

Hey you might like good in both colors ūüėČ

**Friend calls during the evening** ¬†”Hey you come out tonight, i know its random” **you** ¬†Hmmmmm wellll FUCK YEAH OK”

Honestly i can say from  past experiences that random nights are always better then planned ones. You never know who or what will happen and because its so random its much more fun.

” You want fries with that??” FUCK IT YEAH WHY NOT

You can’t have a burger or a steak or whatever your eating without fries can you.

” Should i watch porn??” FUCK IT I GOTTA BUST MY NUTS

I mean we are all humans at the end of the day. Its like when you need to pee you ain’t gonna hold it in are you???

” Wow this dress is over $400, should i still get it??” FUCK IT. YEAH.

If you look and feel good in it then why not, you might not ever get a chance to own something as badass as that dress again.

” Should i dye my hair”¬†FUCK IT

If you think you would look good in red hair or you just want to be a rebel then go for it, if others thinks it’s ugly then screw them.

 

” Should i eat at this restaurant, but i’m all alone?? FUCK IT I WANNA EAT SOME LOBSTER

If your feeling for something quite sophisticated in a high end place but your worried because you don’t want to be seen alone FUCK IT. At the end of the day you are hungry and your stomach is telling you it wants food, it doesn’t care about what people are thinking and you should’t to because you want some lobster not making new best friends.

”Should i apply for this job??” FUCK IT YEAH

I mean if you don’t apply you never know. Funny most people get the job by accident usually they never think they would be working where they are but hey, if they didn’t apply they would never be where they are now. So what if you get turned down at least for one you tried and two if they give you feedback on why you didn’t get it then use their feedback as a positive guide to improve next time.

 

At the end of the day you are who you are and that’s that. Nobody can change you or decide for you, only yourself can do that. If you feel that what you want to do is going to make you happy then do it and fuck all the haters out there. Because at the end of the day if they can’t accept you then clearly they are not meant to be in your life and they should just move on rather then hate. You only live once not twice or nine times so make the most of yourself whatever time you have on earth but remember please be responsible ending up in jail or even worse death is not how you want to end your life. You want to be happy ¬†till the very end and till then ”FUCK IT”

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Do’s and Don’ts on a dating site

Hi there all ūüôā

Well as you guys know not too long ago i made a blog about ” past vs present : dating” ¬†now although i gave my personal choice about me still being old fashion and giving ¬†pros and cons on both old fashion and online dating, I am still open minded about it and i think each works best for each individual. ¬†As i explained in the earlier post i know it can be difficult to meet people whether its because of work time or being there at the right place at the right time to meet someone as well as other things, so i can understand why online dating would be more easier for some. So i’m just going to give a few do’s and don’ts if you or when you join a site.dos-and-donts

DO’S¬†

 

Researching is very VERY important. Now depending on what you are looking for its always best to research the site and look for reviews and feed back on any particular site you are looking for, especially if your looking for something serious you don’t want to waste time on a site that doesn’t focus on it.

 
Read the terms and conditions. When i say this i mean paying sites. Again make sure you read and research on the site to make sure its worth it for you and make sure that at any point if you wish to stop payment there won’t be any hassles. I read that some people had problems stopping payment to a site they wish to discontinue. So please take time and research these things if you decide to pay for the site.

 
Keep it simple. When writing about yourself write things that highlights you the best. Pick at least 5 things you think will make you stand out from the rest and bare in mind you don’t have to write a lot about yourself, keep it mysterious a little it would give the other person more¬†reason¬†to what to get to know you.

Using the sites tools. On every site they will will give you options to state what you are looking for. So make sure you are clear that you are looking for casual or long term etc.

Reading others profile. Make sure that whoever  you are checking out matches the same criteria as yourself. No point messaging someone who is looking for long term if you want casual. It would be a waste of time unless you believe you can convince them otherwise then go for it lol.

Recent pics. Make sure your picture is no older then 1 or 2 years old. The more recent the better.

Be nice. There are some sites which is similar to facebook as in commenting on pics or your profile. So whoever you talk to make sure you keep calm and be nice, otherwise they might comment something nasty about you preventing others to want to talk to you giving you a bad name. Although you can eventually delete the comments and block the person, still better to have a clear name.

Using the advance search. You can always use this option to find someone  point by point on what you are looking for. This is also known as a filter.

Be creative. When you message someone for the first time rather then be boring and say ” hi, hru??” try and be more creative with your message. Try maybe asking a random ¬†question that would make them laugh or asking a question regarding to their profile that will show you actually read about them and not just looked at the pics.

Have fun. Yes have fun with the site, keep it all conversations¬†causal¬†and flowing don’t take it too serious to the point where your stressing over it.

Be realistic. Yes bare in mind that Brad Pitt or Hally Berry won’t be joining a site anytime soon lol. So be open minded about your¬†potentials.

 

DON’TS

 

Photoshop. If you want to give the pictures a bit of a glow or you want to edit a spot which you don’t have anymore then fine. But don’t go over board by giving yourself a nose job, boob job, face lift, more slimmer, more curvy or anything that changes you completely. It will look unreal and if you do decide to meet the person¬†they¬†for one won’t¬†recognize¬†you and sorry to say but they might be¬†disappointed¬†because you gave them a image that¬†doesn’t¬†exists.

Old pictures. Don’t use pictures that are over 2 years old unless your 100% certain you haven’t changed much since then. Again its at your own risk and choice.

Harassment. Don’t¬†harass or pressure the person into giving their number or meeting up ASAP. Some people i guess wound’t mind but please allow some space and time before asking if they want to meet you or not or give their number. Bare in mind we can’t always be on the site 24/7 so don’t take it personal if they person takes 2 or even more days to reply.

Life story. As i said before keep the ” about me” part short and sweet. If you¬†write¬†your whole¬†autobiography¬†then it doesn’t leave any¬†suspense¬†about¬†yourself¬†and people would less likely to read off of it because its too long.

Scammers. If someone says they need money to pay to come and see you or they have a sick parent. THIS IS A SCAM. Don’t fall for this please. Don’t ever give money to someone you don’t know. These people will tell you a sob story, make you feel sorry for them, ¬†make you believe that they are the one for you by¬†basically¬†agreeing with what you say to gain your trust, then once you¬†deiced¬†to pay them you will never hear from them again and all of them are fake profiles.

Jokes. Now i like jokes but some jokes are better heard face to face then writing. So please keep you jokes as simple as you can. Remember some jokes might sound funny to you but it might offend others. Unless you know the person or you know the person shares the same point as you fine. But really best to keep it as light as possible.

Lies. Yeah even though 30% ¬†lie on their profile. Try not to. Or at least make¬†believable¬†hahaha. I mean like i said if its just causal then i suppose it doesn’t make much of a difference since their only looking for one thing, but if its serious or even short term to get to know the person then its best to keep honest about yourself.

Personal info. Don’t give you personal info to someone you don’t know i.e address, bank details, where you work address. Basically anything that can be hacked in or you getting stalked.

So yeah these are just my thoughts and advice about it. I hope it helps and if you are deciding to go for it then i wish you guys all the luck ūüôā

 

 

Dating fails. The heros, villains and down right retarded.

Well i have found a somewhat funny/omg/wtf  site regarding to fail dating or first dates.  This site is suppose to be people submitting their dates and what happens and people would rate it up or rate it down. Now of course i will put the link here at the bottom, but first i just want to elaborate on some of the post i found to be a hero move, villain move and some are just plain retard move and why i personally categories them in that group. So enjoy my top 10 best list. datefail_whitebackground

1.Retard move 

”Realizing I was physically disabled, the first thing my blind date asked was if I could still cook and clean properly. I left without answering.”

Really……. i mean do you think its wise to ask a disable person this question, do people not have any common sense anymore????? I don’t even have to fully express why i put this in the retard group. Good on the girl for leaving his ass¬†straight¬†away god knows how many other retarded questions he would have asked.

2.  Retard move

”I went on a date with this guy, who clearly worked out a lot and had lots of tattoos, which is a major turn-on for me. He started telling about his new tattoo, and I asked to see it: it was a half-naked woman, who had ripped out a guys heart, that covered his entire back. He said he had it done because of how much his ex had hurt him. Great….”

Now i’m not putting it in the retard section because of the guy very expressive tattoo but because the woman¬†herself¬†clearly states tattoos are a major turn off???? i mean if you don’t like them then why the fuck you going out with a guy who has them??? its like me not liking¬†pickles¬†yet i order a¬†salad¬†full of pickles??? and that’s why this entry goes in the retard group.

3. Villain move 

”I dated him for about two weeks and thought it was safe to bring him to my company picnic. He was nice and funny, but had a very annoying habit of talking about calories and fat content every time we ate together. My done point was when I reached for a cookie at the picnic and he looked at me with a frown and said “Ummmm…Do you really need that?”

Ok any guy that says this is a complete waste, i mean really how rude is that to say to a girl??? ¬†Plus these are the types of people that will try and bring you down by any means even if you are as fit as a fiddle as they say. If i was this girl i would have shoved it where the sun don’t shine and then make him eat it.

4. Hero move 

”I went on a date with this girl from work. We had dinner at a nice restaurant and it all seemed to be going great. While we were walking together on the street, a black Mercedes passed us by. The girl stopped walking, threw a hungry stare at the car and let out a sigh. She said: “Oh, money impresses me so much!” She went home, alone.”

And it serves her right to. I made a blog about ” things you shouldn’t say in a date” and here is the reason why you shouldn’t take about money in that kind of way because no matter how good looking you are if you come across as a gold digger they will leave your ass. Hence why i think this guy made a hero move.

5.Villain move

”I went out with this one girl a couple of times. On our third date she looked at me and asked if I had ever considered getting my eyebrows waxed.”

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yep its a cycle here and something i nor other will understand but like i said you find something wrong or unappealing with the person then DON’T FUCKING DATE THEM. SIMPLE. Why go though hell and making the other person’s life a¬†misery¬†just because your ¬†have nothing else better to do but complain about something you knew about but¬†thought¬†” fuck it, i’m gonna be a moaning asshole anyways”

6. Villain/retard move

”I was in a chat room and met this this guy. We both love horses and we really hit it off. So we decided to met up in the stables. He looked at me and said the horses look better than you. I left and cried for 6 days straight!”

Poor girl, but whether it was a joke or not still if your dating someone for the first time remember to keep all jokes at bay if none at all ( harsh ones). I mean having a laugh and few minor jokes is cool but your date is not your best friend you usually take the piss out off. Until you get to know the person really well then i wouldn’t suggest making harsh jokes like that. That’s how you end up¬†forever¬†alone and one day¬†your so call ” joke” can lead to other reactions such as a punch in the face.

7. Villain Move

”When I picked up my date she looked at me & made a weird face, like she was disappointed. I asked her what was wrong & she said that my shirt clashed with her outfit. She said to wait on her doorstep while she ran up to change. 25 min. later she came back & said that it would just be easier if we went out and bought me a new shirt before dinner.”

I’m sorry but if i was the guy i would have just left….. i mean she’s picky about the shirt just imagine¬†everything¬†else. I mean poor guy had to wait and all. But¬†seriously¬†i heard about picky people before but this takes the¬†trophy. Next thing you know she will be telling the guy how to take a dump and make sure the¬†toilet¬†paper doesn’t clash with the shit.

8. Hero move

”I went out on a date with a guy I have been friends with for 2 weeks. After the dinner and movie he parked in front of a motel. I asked him what he was doing, and he literally said, ” I talked to you, listened to you, and took you out on a date. So you’re gona f**k me right?”

Hahaha now your probably thinking why the fuck i put this as a hero move and well the reason is¬†because, at least he’s¬†straight¬†up and not messing about. Sure it might sound sleazy but hey lest he’s not pretending or leading her to believe anything, just¬†straight¬†¬†to the point yes or no loooool. I mean i would rather hear that then someone leading you on to something that will never happen.

9. Hero move

”I was out with a few girls one night and I saw a gorgeous guy playing pool with a bunch of friends. I could tell that he was interested & I was so excited when he walked toward me. But when he leaned in and introduced himself I almost passed out. He had the funkiest breath I have ever smelled! He asked for my number & I told him I was taken.”

Hahahaha i like how this girl deal with the¬†awkward¬†situation, no need for me to explain further to why this is in the hero group. Least she wasn’t directly insulting the guy like some would, she just slyed¬†that nicely.

10. Retard move 

”Years ago, I went on a date with a hot girl. We clicked right away. In fact, she was coming on to me very strongly. We went back to my small apartment and she started to grind on my leg. We were kissing and it was dark. After a half hour she left, when I looked down at my jeans they were soaked in blood. UHHHHHHHH. Didn’t call her again.”

And some people ¬†just don’t understand the meaning of mother nature can be very VERY unpredictable. I mean is not like she had her period on purpose, it can happen anytime and most likely unexpected. This guy is a retard¬†because¬†he seems like a shallow type. If she had a dump on you that would be a whole other situation. But lets understand this¬† guys, When a girl does have her period don’t make her feel worse or¬†embarrassed¬†then she might already. Its part of mother nature, get over it.

And that concludes my top 10. Check out the website for more stories that you might consider and a hero, villain or just plain retard move.

http://www.datingfails.com/

Things that people don’t give a shit about

Well well here i am again to do another top 10 things. I should really be making this ”top 10” a niche market haha. ¬†Anyways today i’m gonna talk about top 10 things to talk about or say that people really don’t give a shit about unless you wan to lose friends or make enemies which by all means go for it, I sure wouldn’t be listening anyways.¬†shit-people-say

1. Status and class

Yes some people feel the need to talk about their status and what class they belong to. Well i’m in the i don’t give a shit class. Really though, do people believe that if they are in middle or upper class its going to make any difference whatsoever. Let’s face nobody really cares of you make ¬£10 or ¬£100,000 the only people that would are either gold diggers or¬†pretensions¬†pom pom wanna be’s. Thing is some people don’t even know what is middle or upper class is they just guess that they are to make¬†themselves¬†sound good when really their just working class and i don’t see why people would be ashamed of that.

2. I’m so fat???

Again something that has annoyed me and i’m guessing others to. I just hate when people post pictures of themselves saying how fat they are bla bla bla, well if you think your such a fat fucker then loss some weight, telling people all the time about it ain’t gonna make you get slimmer is it. Though some people just say they are fat just to get some attention and approvals when they know their not that bad. Let’s face it nobody cares they are bigger problems in this world then worry about someone complaining about their weight all the time.

3. Being materialistic

Yeah some people feel the need to brag or post pictures of every single item they own whether its clothes, Apple, Computer etc. Nobody cares if you got all the Apple series and nobody cares if you bought all the latest Nike series since 2010 till now. I mean every once in a while you might¬†receive¬†something nice and unusual so you post it up or talk about it that’s fine but everyday??? That just shows your materialist to the extreme and you got nothing else better to¬†apart¬†from show off what you buy everyday. ¬†Its like me posting pictures of my shopping list everyday, ” And today i bought full cream milk as suppose to my semi skint milk and maybe tomorrow i’ll go wide and buy both” -_-.

4. Food postings

Ok unless its really really¬†unusual and something you don’t see everyday why they fuck do people post food??? like simple food i.e eggs and bacon. Nobody really cares about what your eating really. I mean are you that bored you have to tell the world your eating an apple?? WooooooW -_-

5. Sleeping around, i’m a player

Ok if you get asked how many people you slept with or your having a funny chat about sex and say ” yeah number 8 was good” that’s one thing, but if you keep going on and on about how many people you have slept with well then nobody cares and people will see you as either a slut, sleazy, you think your god etc. Nobody cares if your a player or not and that fact that people feel the need to mention this just makes me wanna keep away from them in case they got STDs or AIDs ¬†and another thing i always think is ” yeah sleeping with¬†prostitute¬†doesn’t make you a player, your paying them¬†their¬†playing you ” .

6. Celebrities

Ok we always have a gossip or compare celebrities to other people just for a laugh but some people go on and on about it like its their whole life being effected because some random celebrity slept with someone or whatever and people should be more involved.¬†Literally¬†nobody care’s that much about them. Yes they might be on tv and what not but they are also humans to at the end of the day not super heroes. They eat and shit like we do to.

7. GYM

Right i know some people that goes to the GYM nothing wrong with that but some people feel the need to almost imply they are better then you¬†because¬†they go Gym everyday and they are more fitter then you. Lets get this¬†straight, NOT EVERYONE HAS THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO GO GYM. I’m sorry but i have met people who really believe they are better then you¬†because¬†they can go everyday and they are sooooooo fit ( yet still single looooooool) and they feel they need to post regular pics on how much progress they are making and then they make fun of other people who doesn’t have the same body of them. ¬†My advice is keep it to yourself.

8. Bragging about themselves

Some¬†people¬†have their ego wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy up their ass. They¬†literally¬†believe they are god or some kind. Really pisses me off and i’m not being mean but when i do met people like this, i like to bring they ass back¬†down¬†to earth. I mean nobody cares how you are so smart or pretty or how many things you have or how people just bend over for you. Bragging about yourself all the time will lead you to no friends even you dog will run away from you. And also i don’t know if these people know this fact but ”NOBODY IS PERFECT SO STFU”

9. Education

Now for looking for a good job in life you need to have a good education, its common sense. But to brag about it to your friends is another story. Some people feel the need to tell their friends constantly about how many GCSEs they got or A levels or what Uni they went or are going to.¬†Personally¬†i don’t care. i’m not a job, i’m not the¬†employer¬† i’m suppose to be a friend. I don’t look up or down on people with little or high education but when someone constant puts it in my face its like their trying to bring you down and make themselves feel more¬†superior¬† Sometimes people with high education have no common sense, maybe they should learn that first.

10. Religion

Oh shit i’m talking about a sensitive topic here. Right just to clarify this, i myself am none religious but i have nothing¬†against¬†others that do follow a religion, in fact i support their decision. But unless your in a group where you talk about your religion or church etc, please don’t preach about it to others that follow little or none at all. They don’t give a shit that’s a fact. Unless they say lest talk about it or i wanna know more about bla bla bla, don’t just¬†start¬†preaching and¬†criticizing¬†others about it. Unless they attack you first on the matter or disrespect your religion. Other then that if you respect their choice they will respect you back otherwise they just won’t give a shit and your wasting your time.

There is probably more things people don’t give a shit about, but i’m listing the most common one’s i or others gets told about.