Right i’m sure that many of you have been on date that you wish you never went on because you was asked or even felt like they was trying to be better then you that made you think ”ok then…….” or ” what a rude asshole”. I just want to clarify on the things you should’t say or even try to act better then the other person because it might end up with you being left on the spot in front of people or even a glass or two being thrown in your face lol.
WHAT GUYS SHOULDN’T DO:
Guess a girls age. Yes never EVER guess a woman’s age, i don’t even have to say why lol. Or never say what her age looks like she is. Unless you say she looks younger then her age which is fine but if the girl is 20 and you say she looks like a 15 year old it might come across that she isn’t womanly and that she has a body of a teenager. If you guess older then her age well…….. you kinda asked for what happens next XD
Ask how many guys she has slept with. Yeah asking that is a bit inappropriate and kinda none of your business unless she is open to talk about it but if she doesn’t it will come across that you have insecurities and that you may feel threaten by it.
Guess her dress size: Please don’t just for the obvious reason, some guys will try and guess and end up looking like a fool. Also this will show that you are only paying attention to one thing and you might look shallow.
Guess her bust size. Yes believe it or not some guys will guess on the first day, they might think its funny but it’s seen as sleazy.
Show off. Nothing worse then a guy that shows off and talks about himself as a god -_-. You can talk about yourself in brief and even talk about what you have achieved so far in life but don’t go over board and claim you are the greatest hence why you succeed in life so much. You would look like a egotistical freak.
Talk about her clothes choice. NEVER question why a girl decided to wear her outfit or clothes in general. Unless its like really torn and looks like it hasn’t been washed in years. But don’t ask her ” oh why you wearing that cardigan, makes your body seem more bigger”. Do you know how rude that is??? your basically trying to bring her down and if she leaves or slaps you i don’t blame her.
Don’t point things out. If you see a girl has a birthmark, scar or even a small spot, don’t point it out unless she tells you about it first and if she doesn’t there might be a reason why….. and i don’t need to explain further.
Don’t scan the sea. Don’t be looking around for other girls while you are on your date or be on the phone constantly. It is very rude and if that happen to me i myself would just do what he is doing but i would actually leave the table and talk to any random guy just to give him a taste of his own medicine.
WHAT GIRLS SHOULDN’T DO
Money talks : yes don’t mention to a guy how much you love money or if you see a nice car i.e Ferrari and say to the guy ” i love guys with car’s like that”. You will seem like a gold digger and no guys like’s that.
Complain about small things : To be honest if you don’t like hair, beard, tattoos etc then why the fuck you going out with them???? Just to complain??? i don’t blame the guy for leaving you with the bill if you decide to go on a date with someone who has something you don’t find appealing just so you can moan about it.
Don’t go over board. Just because the guy is paying and you know don’t think its ok to get don perignon or a lobster to go or a huge fancy expensive dish to go lol. I mean sure he is paying but don’t take the piss out of the guy.
Exs. Don’t talk about your ex though out the whole conversation. You will give the impression that you are not over the guy.
Being vain. Don’t talk about yourself like you are the hottest thing in the world and that every guy wants you. It will make you look cheap and it will 99.9% of the time put the guy off.
Too serious. Don’t take the whole date too serious and don’t ask the guy on the first date that you want a serious relationship out of the date. I mean ok i’m sure sometimes people go on a date knowing what the long term out come will be but don’t be pushy and don’t scare the guy off. Just act like your just having dinner with a friend and relax then see who things go.
Dumb act. Don’t act like a dumbo the whole time or even at all lol. Just be you and see how it goes. Acting too dumb will result to a guy only wanting one thing at the end of it and leave or not even because he finds you too immature.
GUY AND GIRL:
GIVE SOME SPACE. DON’T BE TOOOO CLOSE TO THE PERSON OTHERWISE IT WILL MAKE THEM FEEL UNEASY AND FEEL WEIRD. GIVE AT LEAST ARMS SPACE BETWEEN UNLIT THEY START FEELING MORE COMFORTABLE NEXT TO YOU.
DON’T EVER CALL THE GUY OR GIRL CONSTANTLY AFTER THE FIRST DATE YOU WILL LOOK DESPERATE. ONCE OR TWICE OK BUT NOT 100 TOMES PER DAY .
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